The delivered coil voltage is more a function of the resistance in the combustion chamber than the dielectric rating of the coil itself. Probably still only using about 10,000/12,000 volts to jump the plug gap. Even a 100,000 volt coil rating wouldn't ever drive the voltage that high with an inductive type ignition. If the coil were being powered by a CD type ignition that uses the coil as a "step-up" transformer (they put 400+ volts on the primary) - then you could get a charge high enough to stress the coil insulation.
Ted has dyno results that show the smaller plug gaps made more engine power - even with a very powerful ignition. That being the case, why stress everything with the big gap?