When it comes to finding out where the heat is - and where it isn't - you can't beat an infrared "gun" style of thermometer. I used to borrow one from work but finally invested in a Craftsman unit from Sears (about $80). With this sort of instrument you should be able to "see" the temp rise at the thermostat outlet when it opens. I have the Mr Gasket 180° - modified with three 3/16 holes as a bypass - but you can clearly tell when it opens.The balance between the radiator size, water flow, fan air flow and engine water heating on my outfit is basically a 100°-105°F rise over ambient. So when the outdoor temperature is below 80°F, the thermostat "regulates" its water opening to hold temp in the motor - and just barely opens enough to send a bit toward the radiator and ingest a slug of cold water from the inlet hose. I have an orfice installed in the bypass hose below the thermostat (3/16 opening) and it changes the way mine behaves compared to one that is a wide open 5/8 hose like a stocker. That open bypass may be a necessity when you live somewhere besides southern Arizona - otherwise, warm-up may be extended.
When I got the car - and took all of the front-end equipment off the engine for a clean up, painting and new gaskets - I found that the waterpump and thermostat housing were so heavily limed up that the bypass hose wasn't exactly passing a lot of water to start with.