I think the 3.70 is the better compromise. With 225/70-15 tires, a 3.70, and in 4th gear, 1:1 ratio, my motor turns about 3000rpm at 60mph, and about 3500rpm at 70mph. My speedo accuracy is not verified but even keep up with slow traffic requires at least 3000rpm. A stock motor can probably do it but it'll be real inefficient.
Think 3spd overdrive, 4spd overdrive, or T5 to have both worlds. 1st gear on a T5 will make it like going a ratio or 2 higher on the R&P and 5th will give you the highway speed you want.
Lawrenceville, GA