The top rod is a SHIFT linkage rod.
The middle rod is a kickdown rod but it has no bracket for the clevis pin attachment.
The 3rd rod at the bottom is the correct rod for a 55/56 ford. In 1957, Ford changed the style of clevis attachment where the pin would go through a "fork" shaped bracket that was on the threaded rod. This correct rod in the photo should attach to the end of your bellcrank in the photo and a cotter pin can be used to keep the bracket in place on the bellcrank.
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Once you get it hooked up, there is a simple "baseline" procedure from the Fomoco 55 or 56 Ford manual. Basically it involves lining up the two holes on the driver's side of your pictured bracket, placing a pin in those holes, and then putting the bracket on the top of the kickdown road in a particular distance on the rod. Hook it up, drive the car, and then adjust up or down as needed for your transmission to drop in the lower gear on demand of the accelerator pedal.
Daniel JessupLancaster, California
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