With the original Fordomatic, if you place it in Dr, and then pull off under normal driving conditions (in other words, don't "tromp" it lol), you should only have ONE shift from second to third. That is the way to tell very quickly whether or not you are really in 3rd gear. Starting in Lo, and then shifting to Dr will take you from 1st and then to 2nd. Leaving the car in drive and continuing to accelerate will eventually put you in 3rd gear.
I know we have been all over the place here, but all of the tire calculations are not worth a hill of beans unless you have shifted into 3rd gear. The original Fordomatics took OFF IN SECOND GEAR from a stop and in the Dr position on the selector.
I believe you are in 3rd gear at 3000 rpm at 55 mph. Have you had a shift when take off in Dr? If you have then YOU ARE IN 3RD GEAR, if not then you ARE ONLY IN SECOND.
Daniel JessupLancaster, California
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