Read This Again-
"Your transmission style is known as a SINGLE RANGE FORD-O-MATIC and it starts in 2nd gear mainly for fuel usage reasons. It starts in 2nd and goes into 3rd making one think a gear is missing. If you want a 1st gear start, you either pull the selector lever into L or use WOT (wide open throttle) from start."
If you feel two shifts, it is either a FOM or possibly a later COM (or even FMX for that matter). Can you get under the car to find the TRANS ID PLATE?
If the car does reach 3rd (direct) and you are experiencing high RPM, then the rear axle ratio is too low for highway cruising.
Is is possible the car was assembled with a 3/S/OD from the factory and the previous owner installed an AT?
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