Tim,
Our condolences for your loss, and you bring up such valid points that speak to the reasons for the existence of Y Block Ministries. Life itself is a risk, and there is every need to consider the after life. Live life to the fullest - we are here to have an abundant life - but never forget eternity. Y Block Ministries has a goal to reach people like us with the truth of the life-changing power of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Politically correct? Not on your life.
Socially acceptable? Not in this day and age.
Maybe there's a good reason why I keep getting called the "Hot Rod Reverend!" ????
All of this too reminds me of something that Bruce Young puts in the YBM every once in a while. He has a tendency to let everyone know that we aren't getting any older - if you are going to try something out, put together that monster Y Block, race that Y block powered vehicle, or whatever.......do it now.
Tim - God bless you at this time as well.
Daniel JessupLancaster, California
aka "The Hot Rod Reverend" 
check out the 1955 Ford Fairlane build at www.hotrodreverend.com