There's something odd about just changing a distributor gear to one of a different tooth count. The laws of physics suggest that this will cause a 7.69% increase in distributor rotation speed relative to the cam. So, though I have read this "easy" fix many times, my take on it is that a change to a '55-up cam would be required to accommodate the swap. Is that not so?
As for oil drive rods, I will suggest that Arp makes a stronger-than-stock unit which is less prone to bending.
I have spliced a modern small block (302) distributor and loadocrдpic distributor shaft together. The Y-block distributor is 1" longer than the small block distributor and the gear is different. The relative placement of the two locating (roll pin) holes was minimally different on them also. Therefore, they were spliced at the region of the upper hole and the common location of the two holes is held with the roll pin that the upper collar is pinned with. I think that the MSD 8383 is a good solution but it is kind of pricey.
Edit- Sorry, Ted. I re-read and I see that you (wisely) informed him to use the 13 tooth gear. Not to change to the 14-tooth gear. It's early. Anyway, one would have a really hard time changing the cam to fit a 14 tooth gear. The bearing journals are markedly different. I think I'll sit back and learn some more.